Discover 5 Simply Ways to Make Your Audience Love You

by Jane K.Thomas

Would you like to discover the secret of how you can get any audience to love you, without them even knowing it? Of course you would and it’s probably right up there at the top of your public speaking tips wish list!

By discovering a few, easy to apply techniques, you will quickly be able to guarantee that even the most difficult audience will rate you as one of the most accomplished public speakers that the have ever heard. By gaining a thorough understanding of what your audience is looking for even before you step out on stage, you will already be in a position to guarantee that that you will make a positive connection with them from the very start.

So just what are these techniques that will guarantee to make any audience love you?

Step 1.

Your first aim is to really gain an understanding of what your prospective audience expects and wants to hear from you. You can discover exactly what this is by carrying out your preliminary research once you know the topic you will be speaking on. Talk to a few people who have an interest in your subject and take a note of what is important to them and what sort of questions they may want to have answered. Get a book on the subject from your library or let the online search engines deliver a wealth of information right to your browser.

Step 2.

Now you must concentrate on building an easy rapport with your audience. The best - and easiest - way is simply to remember to smile and make eye contact throughout your delivery. You are a warm and friendly person, so make an effort to let your audience know that too! One very important tip that is overlooked by so many public speakers is to be in the room or auditorium whilst their audience is arriving. This gives you the chance to greet a few people personally and will ensure that you are far more memorable than other speakers. Your audience will also feel that they already know and like you before you are formally introduced on stage.

Step 3.

Use words and language that is appropriate for the topic and that your audience will understand. This shared knowledge will endear you to your audience but be very careful not to over-do the jargon. Remember, it’s a fine line between appearing to really understand the subject and being seen as a know-all!

Step 4.

Always make sure that your speech contains benefit after benefit for your audience. Your speech is for their sole satisfaction and fulfillment - not yours. Deliver solutions to their problems and aim to meet as many of their wants as you can. Audiences want to be informed, entertained, educated, emotionally or spiritually fulfilled or to be shown how to gain some financial or health advantage - so work at satisfying as many wants from this list as you can.

And the very best of all public speaking tips?

Step 5.

Appear confident and relaxed on stage.

It is a surprising truth that your audience will mirror what you project on stage, so if you are embarrassed, uneasy or hesitant in your manner, they will sub-consciously be feeling the same. If you appear at ease and relaxed during your presentaion, then they will relax too. So, if you are giving out signals that you are comfortable in their presence, have respect and affection for them and appreciate their attention, then they will do the same for you - without realising exactly why they are feeling warm and appreciative towards you. Guaranteed!

So by simply using all these public speaking tips in your presentations you will quickly discover that making your audience love you is much easier than you might have thought. Other, less successful public speakers overlook these vital techniques - don’t you make the same mistake.

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